I've found some accountability. My trainer is going to take a look at my food journal every week and do measurements once in awhile as well.
I have a sitter lined up to take the girls to on weekends so that I can go to the gym (I'm potty training my 2 year old this weekend, so unfortunately I can't leave the house for that reason). My permanent nanny will be here next Sunday, so I will have some more help with the house and kids at that point.
I'm finally done my flight test ("Pilot Proficiency Check" is a yearly flight test for commercial pilots), so I can stop stressing about that.
There are always things to stress about, but I'm slowly learning to prioritize and not worry so much about the things I can't change.
But you know the biggest reason I'm better managing all the stress in my life?
Because I'm making clean eating and working out a priority.
This single act has turned my life right around. I am finding that any goal is easier to obtain if you just put your health first.